The Journey to Great Sex Part 2


Last week we brought you the first installment on how to spice up the bedroom in any relationship. If you recall – the little pearl that brings the ultimate stimulation, the birthday suit is the best, don’t stop, and doggy style with a hint of romance. Mostly these tips require trust, openness, and honesty. This week we have the remaining 5 tips for great sex!


Sound Effects

Don’t be silent during the act. Believe it or not, men usually find moans and groans encouraging. When he kisses, licks or does something you enjoy, let him know you’re into it. You don’t have to force it or scream, but don’t stifle the moans and groans that express your pleasure. Same goes for men – we like hearing it!


Dirty Talk 

“Yeah boy I like it, yeah boy I like it. Love it when you talk that talk to me.” Rihanna didn’t make the song for no reason.  Let’s be honest lovelies bedroom talk is the best! Much like sound effects, let the dirty words roll off your tongue, its reinforcing to your partner and invigorates the two of you.


A Little Humor, Please?

Humor is allowed in the bedroom, mostly. Say an awkward slip happens; it’s totally acceptable to laugh. Recalling that funny cat commercial, and laughing hysterically in the middle of the act is not. Funny laugh-out-loud moments doing the deed are sometimes bonding. Laughing also releases tension, if there is any.


Your Cervix May Have Another Use

Explore the joys of cervical stimulation, but do so with care because not all women enjoy it. If you’re one who does, you can have a whole ‘nother world of fun.

Tip: To find out if cervical stimulation is for you, start by practicing alone by gently using a toy to reach the cervix. There are certain times of the month when it can result in discomfort or even pain, so exercise caution and patience.

If you’ve already learned that cervical stimulation is your thing, try sharing the news with your lover. Knowing there’s another organ that could bring you pleasure is thrilling and believe me, he’ll be excited to try.

Helpful positions for cervical stimulation include: Sex standing up, him behind you and leaning just slightly, with your hands resting on a bed or table. Don’t go full-blown doggy-style position, but more of a slanted one. This is an excellent way to reach the cervix, and it allows gentle, but firm stimulation. For more intense stimulation, try lying on your back, your bum at the edge of the bed with him standing up, between your legs. Rest your legs on his shoulders and lift up, slightly.


Bring Bob (your battery operated buddy) along, if your partner doesn’t mind.

If you’re both familiar with, and enjoy toys, next time you buy one, tell your lover about your purchase and how the two of you can explore its abilities together. The anticipation of playing with your new battery operated buddy will have  you both aroused.

As a last note, it seemed necessary to say this: Never, under any circumstance put her breasts in your mouth and say “ga-ga” or “ma-ma.” Ever.

Written by: Kendra Richards is a writer, pet lover, aloe vera-eater and a woman of many talents. If she isn’t passionately typing away, she’s more than likely spending time with her family, pets, boyfriend or attempting to sew something. It’s also possible that she’s buried deep in some type of activism work. Writing anything and everything from beauty, health, fashion product reviews to informational articles, she loves variety when it comes to reading and  writing. A people and animal lover, she believes cats are super heroes in disguise.


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